Question:
Why was Diana,Princess of Wales respected?
♠♠♠ACE♠♠♠
2008-03-21 04:36:19 UTC
i read about Diana in wiki and another article at about.com but what i was not able to understand was what made people respect Diana. She definitely had an interesting life and i understand why people were interested in her life and her reason to be popular.She did some charity work but a lot of celebrities do that today, they are not as respected as Diana (not even close). so what was it about Diana that made her respectful and loved by people(i heard she was loved more than Queen Elizabeth)?
27 answers:
2008-03-21 05:05:28 UTC
She was a commoner from the public for starters, not just another Royal or society person who most are all ready critical of being yet another rich brat from the upper-class. She was the modern day Cinderella who truly represented the people, or average subjects of the UK.



From that level of respect and interest starting out, she kept a healthy skeptical opinion of the rich and royal types, and it would come out at times in interviews and speeches so common people trusted and respected her far more than most could remember, for she was one of their own.



You have to consider that many commoners see the royal status as a waste of money and resources for the taxpayers, as the royals don't rule anywhere as they use to, now that the House of Lords and the Prime Minister serve that role in modern UK government, the royals are mere tradition.



So when you have a Queen to be who is doing all this extra work, it's good to know if you are paying for her to be that queen, she actually get out and does stuff besides being new society. People really respected that. She was obviously going to change the status quo that so many had come to question about royals.



Queen Elizabeth was also popular starting out, when she drove an ambulance during World War II, just as Charlie, Princess Di's son is starting to look like a war hero now, but both are still on the royal society side as they live that life. Di was above that to the commoner, or below depending where your perspective and position.



That's why many think she was killed by British Agents after her and Charles separated, and she was seeing Dody. It was rumored she was pregnant with his child, and about to make a mockery of the throne. On purpose to show her disrespect of the Queen and her position she turned her back on. Of course it was ruled she was not at the time of her death, but supposedely fear levels were running high.
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2016-05-25 05:36:43 UTC
Originally and for the first few years of her marriage to Charles, she was seen as this sweet and charming young woman (hard to imagine she was only 19 when she actually married Charles) who had brought a breath of fresh air into the monarchy and provided the nation with two healthy heirs to the throne, therefore securing the succession. As the marriage began to break down, Diana was quite vocal about the tactics that were going on and the palace's intentions (in her words) to make her look like a mad woman stuck a marriage and institution that simply didn't understand her plights. Every (or at least almost every) Princess of Wales throughout history had to endure their husband having a mistress or maybe a number of mistresses, that their marriages were effectively arranged and so on. Diana and Charles's marriage wasn't that much different in comparison. He was pressured into marrying Diana. She expected a loving and fairytale wedding. The lack of affection and support from her husband and new family along with the intense media scrutiny eventually got to her. Much of this gained her public sympathy. She was also very aware of what she was doing with the media and press towards the end of her life and would often tip them off when she was doing undercover charity work for example. She touched upon controversial and political issues such as HIV infected people and land mines knowing the other royals wouldn't touch these subjects with a barge pole but also knowing it would gain her 'brownie points' with the public. Her sudden death at the beginning of her 'new life' so to speak (divorced from Charles, finding her feet away from the Royal Family etc) somewhat made her a martyr. Sudden or accidental deaths remind people of the fragility and finality of life. People thought it deeply unfair that this kind and wonderful Princess had died so suddenly (of course all the negative traits she possessed were forgotten as she died). The way the Royal Family reacted to her death had a huge impact to the nation. They were on holiday at the Queen's estate (Balmoral) in Scotland. She merely did what she thought was best - keep the young princes away from the glare of the spotlight in London and let the Spencers (Diana's family) carry out a private funeral. She was no longer married to Charles or an HRH (Her Royal Highness) so it was largely a private matter as far as the Queen was concerned. The public was furious at the Queen's distance: emotionally and physically. Eventually, under much pressure, the family came down to London and a very public funeral took place, televised across the world, provoking much emotion. Who knows how she would have turned out if she lived and indeed how respected she'd be by people. Her public charitable work, troubled marriage, sensitivity and death at a young age all contribute to the reasons she's so remembered.
WALTER C
2008-03-21 05:06:24 UTC
Diana,Princess of Wales was the only one to stand up to the rest of Royalty(especially Prince Charles,and the Queen Elizabeth), and tell them exactly what was on her mind and what she was going to do to make the world a better place to live. She did exstensive work with Mother Theresa to help the poor people in poor countries to have a better quality of life. One of her main goals ehs to rid the world of land mines so that innocent women,children,and men would not be very badly injured or killed.She did what the rest of the British Royalty did not have the courage to do. Diana,Princess of Wales made some real changes in the ways that mankind lives.She was an absolutely an icon of service to mankind.

Walter C.
2008-03-22 03:49:16 UTC
I think because at the beginning, she's the kind of person who people can relate with. She may belong to an Aristocratic family but she wasn't a supermodel, actress, famous singer etc. if you get what I mean. She did charity sincerely and not out of publicity. Despite all the good things she had done, she committed lots of mistakes which made her HUMAN. She was approachable and lovable and had no "self absorbed upper class looking down on other people" attitude.
cooldude
2008-03-21 15:47:40 UTC
Who said she is respected... there is a difference between being loved and being respected... The Queen is not loved but she is respected... There are some people who think diana was false, a whore as she slept with about five men, a manipulator, an attention seeker..etc

So not everyone respects her... she was more loved than respected.
gustavo6723
2008-03-21 14:48:52 UTC
Even though Diana came from privilege,she worked as a school teacher and saw how common people made a living. Being the daughter of an Earl didn't make her disassociate herself from the people.

Once she married the Prince of Wales,she remembered her past and she never forgot that there are people in this world who have go thru life with nothing but what they wear and they do struggle to make it.
ScotNepal
2008-03-21 17:09:37 UTC
Because she wasnt an upper class arrogant Snob like the rest of the Royals. Princess Diana was the "Peoples Princess" because she had that common touch...
2008-03-21 06:21:22 UTC
She was respected because she didn't care that she was "Royalty" She cared about the world, and the people in that world.

I dobt anyone could bring as much respect as Diana did. She died as she lived - on the edge.



Every one should reilise - anyone can be famous - only the true heroines will go down in history.



x
2008-03-21 06:29:21 UTC
I would this that she was cared for more that Queen Elizabeth because princess Diana wasn't a snob and she actually cared. Celebrities just do that for publicity, so yeah
2008-03-21 04:41:49 UTC
Because she made mistakes and grew from them, thus making herself someone our country could relate to. Plus, she did more for charities than almost any celeb I can think of (before it became all the rage).



...oh, and she was beautiful. But don't underestimate how much us Brits love the Queen, many might shrug it off but I reckon people will be suprised how sad they are when she dies.
Thought Bandit
2008-03-21 04:43:29 UTC
People like to have someone to look up to and thus choose someone to put on a pedestal. Princesses are particularly suitable for this.



To me she was no better than anybody else, she did do some good things but had a lot of personal problems.
2008-03-21 04:39:47 UTC
She just is. She divoriced Prince Charles after she could have been Queen. Then she raised 2 boys by herself! After that she died in a car accident leaving her 2 boys and ex husband and other family. She did many things that were good and had many accomplishments from what I heard. She's just someone like the rest who is dead and should be respected.
Theatre Nut!
2008-03-21 04:40:49 UTC
Because the Royal Family treated her like dirt and she had to live through it with Charles *cringes* and go through it alone. Charles was having an affair with Camilla at the time and Diana was with Dodi (sp) when there was a fear she may be pregnant, she mysteriously died and Charles married Camilla.
Joellie H
2008-03-21 04:40:38 UTC
Because, despite the fact the royal family wanted her to be part of what they were, she wanted to be normal, she didnt want the smart dresses, the 'done up' look, she wanted to be who she wanted to be, and in her struggle to find a way to fit in trying to make her marriage work AND fit in with the family, she found death. The pressure was too much. Now i respect her because she went through alot and in the end, she was killed.
2008-03-21 05:33:37 UTC
She was a damsel in distress...

She was both beautiful and fragile at the same time...

She actually becomes the woman to love and to protect... at least that's what the public sees in her (considering Prince Charles)...



and I think that because of that wonderful aura surrounding her... we learn to love her... even in death...
soakin_n_kerosene
2008-03-21 04:42:00 UTC
She was beautiful and had class. She had that angelic smile that made everyone see the good in her. It's that smile and that charm that earned her respect. She was easy going and funloving and to have all that in one package. How could you not respect her. Along with that she married well can't say it here but anyone who puts up with that man has to be an angel.
Smiling Star
2008-03-21 07:29:50 UTC
...Because Princess Diana really cared about people.



-SS (-:Smiling Star-:)
Maria J
2008-03-21 04:39:09 UTC
She was an awesome princess who helped people.
jammygal
2008-03-21 04:45:08 UTC
She died.

Before she died, the tabloid newpapers were awful to her.
2008-03-21 04:40:01 UTC
She was a great humanitarian and just seemed real and approachable.
2008-03-21 10:18:32 UTC
She had a warmth and a compassion which made her.
Golden
2008-03-21 04:39:41 UTC
Because she was genuine, and had a lot of heart.
daniel g
2008-03-21 04:39:55 UTC
she was not as creepy and sneaky like the other royals are

i think Harry takes after her
2008-03-21 04:38:41 UTC
because she really seemed to care about others and was a nice person to the public... i guess?
2008-03-21 08:43:55 UTC
she what a princess should be
2008-03-21 04:39:21 UTC
Well, I never liked her. I saw her as a slut with a taste for muslim men. She was liked by British housewives though;that was her main fan base.
2008-03-21 04:42:11 UTC
Lady Diana Spencer, former Princess of Wales, (Diana Frances;[2] née Spencer; 1 July 1961 – 31 August 1997) was the first wife of Charles, Prince of Wales. Their sons, Princes William and Henry (Harry), are second and third in line to the thrones of the United Kingdom and fifteen other Commonwealth Realms.



A public figure from the announcement of her engagement to Prince Charles, Diana remained the focus of near-constant media scrutiny in the United Kingdom and around the world up to and during her marriage, and after her subsequent divorce. Her sudden death in a car accident was followed by a spontaneous and prolonged show of public mourning. Contemporary responses to Diana's life and legacy have been mixed but a popular fascination with the Princess endures, and conspiracy theories about her death are currently the subject of an inquest.

Diana Frances Spencer was the youngest daughter of Edward John Spencer, Viscount Althorp, later John Spencer, 8th Earl Spencer, and his first wife, Frances Spencer, Viscountess Althorp (formerly the Honourable Frances Burke Roche). She was born at Park House, Sandringham in Norfolk, England and baptised there at St. Mary Magdalene Church by the Rt. Rev. Percy Herbert (rector of the church and former Bishop of Norwich and Blackburn); her godparents included John Floyd (the chairman of Christie's). She was the third child to the couple, her four siblings being The Lady Sarah Spencer (born 19 March 1955), The Lady Jane Spencer (born 11 February 1957), The Honourable John Spencer (born and died 12 January 1960), and Charles Spencer (born 20 May 1964). Her parents' reasonably acrimonious divorce in 1969 (over Lady Althorp's affair with wallpaper heir Peter Shand Kydd), Diana's mother took her and her younger brother to live in an apartment in London's Knightsbridge, where Diana attended a local day school. That Christmas the Spencer children went to celebrate with their father and he subsequently refused to allow them to return to London and their mother. Lady Althorp sued for custody of her children, but Lady Althorp's mother's testimony against her daughter during the trial contributed to the court's decision to award custody of Diana and her brother to their father. On the death of her paternal grandfather, Albert Spencer, 7th Earl Spencer in 1975, Diana's father became the 8th Earl Spencer, at which time she became Lady Diana Spencer and moved from her childhood home at Park House to her family's sixteenth-century ancestral home of Althorp.



In 1976 Lord Spencer married Raine, Countess of Dartmouth, the only daughter of romantic novelist Barbara Cartland, after he was named as the "other party" in the Dartmouths' divorce. During this time Diana travelled up and down the country, living between her parents' homes—with her father at the Spencer seat in Northamptonshire, and with her mother, who had moved to the Island of Seil off the west coast of Scotland. Diana, like her siblings, did not get along with her new stepmother.





[edit] Royal descent

Diana was born into an aristocratic family.[1] On her mother's side, Diana had Irish, Scottish, English, and American ancestry. One of her great-grandmothers was the New York heiress Frances Work. On her father's side, she was a descendant of King Charles II of England through two illegitimate sons:



Henry Fitzroy, 1st Duke of Grafton, son by Barbara Villiers, 1st Duchess of Cleveland

Charles Lennox, 1st Duke of Richmond and Lennox, son by Louise de Kérouaille, 1st Duchess of Portsmouth

She was also a descendant of King James II of England through an illegitimate daughter, Henrietta FitzJames. Henrietta's mother was Arabella Churchill, the sister of John Churchill, 1st Duke of Marlborough. Her other notable ancestors included Robert I (the Bruce) and Mary, Queen of Scots (an aspect of family history in which Diana expressed great interest); Mary Boleyn; Lady Catherine Grey; Maria de Salinas; John Egerton, 2nd Earl of Bridgewater; and James Stanley, 7th Earl of Derby.



The Spencers had been close to the British Royal Family for centuries, rising in royal favour during the 1600s. Diana's maternal grandmother, Ruth, Lady Fermoy, was a long-time friend and a lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother.



Actor Oliver Platt is a second cousin, as he is also a great-grandchild of Frances Work. Diana was also a cousin of one of her favorite actresses, Audrey Hepburn. Her other notable cousins include Humphrey Bogart and Rainier III, Prince of Monaco.



In August 2007, the New England Historic Genealogical Society published Richard K. Evans's The Ancestry of Diana, Princess of Wales, for Twelve Generations.[2]





[edit] Education

Diana was first educated at Silfield School in Kings Lynn, Norfolk, then at Riddlesworth Hall in Norfolk and at West Heath Girls' School (later reorganised as the New School at West Heath, a special school for boys and girls) in Sevenoaks, Kent, where she was regarded as a poor student, having attempted and failed all of her O-levels twice.[3] In 1977, at the age of 16, she left West Heath and briefly attended Institut Alpin Videmanette, a finishing school in Rougemont, Switzerland. At about that time, she first met her future husband, who was dating her sister, Lady Sarah. Diana reportedly excelled in swimming and diving and is said to have longed to be a ballerina. She studied ballet for a time, but at 5'10" was too tall.



Diana moved to London before she became seventeen. An apartment was purchased for her at Coleherne Court in the Earls Court area, and she lived there until 1981 with three flatmates.





[edit] Marriage

Prince Charles' love life had always been the subject of press speculation, and he was linked to numerous glamorous and aristocratic women. In his early thirties, he was under increasing pressure to marry. Legally, the only requirement was that he could not marry a Roman Catholic; a member of the Church of England was preferred. In order to gain the approval of his family and their advisers, any potential bride was expected to have a royal or aristocratic background, be a virgin, as well as be Protestant. Diana met these qualifications.





[edit] Engagement and wedding

Their engagement became official February 24, 1981[4] with the heir to the throne presenting the princess with a walnut-sized £30,000 ring consisting of 14 diamonds and a sapphire. [5]



The 20-year-old princess married at St Paul's Cathedral, which offered more seating than Westminster Abbey which was previously used for royal nuptials, on 29 July 1981 in what was widely billed as a "fairytale wedding" watched by a global television audience of 750 million.[6] [7] Bride and groom both scrambled their vows a bit, [8], the 11:20 A.M. BST wedding was flawless and as opulent as one would expect for a royal couple. The princess wore a gown valued at £9000 with 25 foot train and the finest lace.[9]





[edit] Problems and separation

In the late 1980s, the marriage of Diana and Charles fell apart, an event at first suppressed, then sensationalised, by the world media. Both the Prince and Princess of Wales allegedly spoke to the press through friends, each blaming the other for the marriage's demise. Charles resumed his old, pre-marital affair with Camilla Parker Bowles. Asked what part Camilla Parker-Bowles had played in the break-up of her marriage, Diana commented during the BBC programme Panorama, "Well there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded." [10] Diana had an affair with her riding instructor, James Hewitt. She confirmed this during the Panorama television interview. [11] Charles had confirmed his own affair over a year earlier in a televised interview with Jonathan Dimbleby.[12] The Prince and Princess of Wales were separated on 9 December 1992. [13] While she blamed Camilla Parker-Bowles for her marital troubles, as early as October 1993, Diana was writing to a friend that she believed her husband was now in love with Tiggy Legge-Bourke and wanted to marry her.[14] On 3 December 1993, Diana announced her withdrawal from public life.[15]





[edit] Divorce

In December 1995, the Queen asked Charles and Diana for "an early divorce".[16] This followed shortly after Diana's accusation that Tiggy Legge-Bourke had aborted Charles's child, causing Tiggy to instruct Peter Carter-Ruck to demand an apology.[16] Two days before this story broke, Diana's secretary Patrick Jephson resigned, later claiming that Diana had "exulted in accusing Legge-Bourke of having had an abortion".[17]



The divorce was finalised on 28 August 1996.[15]



Diana received a lump sum settlement of around £17,000,000 along with a legal order preventing her from discussing the details.[18]



Days before the decree absolute of divorce, Letters Patent were issued by Queen Elizabeth II containing general rules to regulate the titles of people who married into the Royal Family after divorce. In accordance with those rules, as she was no longer married to the Prince of Wales, and so had ceased to be a Royal by-marriage, Diana lost the style, Her Royal Highness and instead was styled, Diana, Princess of Wales. Prince William has stated that, when he becomes king, he will issue a royal warrant bestowing the style of Her Royal Highness on his deceased mother.



Buckingham Palace stated that Diana was still officially a member of the Royal Family, since she was the mother of the second- and third-in-line to the throne. This was confirmed by the Deputy Coroner of the Queen’s Household, Baroness Butler-Sloss, who after a pre-hearing on 8 January 2007 ruled that: "I am satisfied that at her death, Diana, Princess of Wales continued to be considered as a member of the Royal Household."[19] This appears to have been confirmed in the


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